SuitabookWhile We Can’t Hug
Eoin McLaughlin
- Reading
- Read it aloud slowly and pause to notice each alternative greeting or message. Afterwards, invite the child to choose or invent one way to express affection; do not assume hugging is necessary.
- Themes
- Affection without physical contact: Hedgehog and Tortoise want to hug but instead wave, blow kisses, sing, dance and write letters across a gap. The story clearly presents varied, non-touching expressions as meaningful ways for the friends to show love and remain connected.
- Connection during separation: The two friends remain emotionally connected while separated, and both know they are loved despite being unable to touch. Separation is portrayed as difficult but manageable through creativity and mutual reassurance rather than as the end of friendship.
- Worth knowing
- The separation may resonate with a child who is apart from friends or relatives, or who dislikes touching. The book does not explain its cause, so adults may need to supply context gently if wanted.