Ties that blind
Judy Dearborn Nill
- Reading
- Consider reading together or checking in after the story, letting the young reader set the pace. You could talk about which trusted person they might turn to if a situation leaves them uncertain.
- Themes
- Mixed signals and interpretation: Emma believes her married pastor is in love with her after he kisses her; he acts as if it did not happen, then alternates between pushing her away and showing affection. The contrasting responses keep Emma uncertain about how to read the pastor’s behaviour.
- Rumours and disclosure: A church secretary spreads rumours of clergy abuse, Emma’s friend insists she is a victim, and a scandal rocks the church. Emma must decide how to interpret her experience and what to tell. Rumours, her friend’s view and the church scandal form the backdrop to Emma’s decisions about her experience and what to tell.
- Worth knowing
- The story includes a pastor kissing Emma, inconsistent affection, rumours of clergy abuse and a church scandal. These elements may prompt questions about boundaries, trust and the consequences of speaking up.