SuitabookThis Book is Gay
Juno Dawson
- Reading
- Read selectively by chapter rather than assuming every section is needed at once. Consider reading the identity and stereotypes chapters first, then pause before the frank sex-education material for a clear conversation about readiness.
- Themes
- Identity and self-definition: The book defines identities, includes testimonials, discusses scientific reasoning about gay people and challenges stereotypes and expectations about queer culture. Identity variety is presented as legitimate, while readers are encouraged not to measure themselves against stereotypes.
- Disclosure, safety and belonging: The book explains coming out, possible benefits and drawbacks, queerphobic discrimination, safe spaces, and cultural and religious perspectives. It offers practical tools and arguments while acknowledging that disclosure can involve risks and differing social contexts.
- Relationships and sexual health: The book covers dating, relationship commitments, safer sex, sexual mechanics, STIs and HIV, with communication and comfort presented as important considerations. The approach is described as sex-positive and scientific or therapeutic, rather than pornographic, while remaining frank about sexual language and acts.
- Worth knowing
- Expect direct discussion of sexual desire, body parts, sexual acts, dating, sexual health, HIV and other STIs, alongside strong, sexual, queer-identity and discriminatory language. Two illustrations show nude bodies, and difficult subjects include assault, violence and suicide.