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Natalia Shaloshvili - Author
Choose this for a conversation about saying no kindly, rather than simply teaching a child to share more.
Bear plans a peaceful day on a bench with a cookie, a book and a balloon. One by one, Fox, Wolf, Rabbit and Elephant ask to share his space or favourite things. Bear keeps agreeing despite growing frustration until his feelings erupt in a huge shout. The picture-book story uses escalating comic interruptions to explore sharing, personal boundaries, frustration, friendship and the value of saying what you really mean before emotions boil over.
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Sign in for personalised guidanceHow the book presents it: The publisher explicitly values saying what you mean. Sharing is considered alongside personal boundaries, rather than endless agreement.
Talk about: How could Bear say no without being unkind?
How the book presents it: The publisher presents bottled-up emotion as a problem. The feeling itself need not be treated as bad behaviour.
Talk about: What could the friends notice before Bear loses his temper?
Bear agrees while becoming increasingly frustrated. That gap between what he says and how he feels gives you a concrete way to discuss boundaries before an angry outburst.
Bear bottles up frustration and then shouts; this may matter to children sensitive to angry outbursts.
What could Bear say before he becomes too frustrated?
Read together and pause before the shout: what could Bear say when he wants some space?
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Book information
catalogue record · ISBN 9781836006565
Relevant to: Speaking honestly about boundaries; Bottling up frustration
same edition · ISBN 9781836006565
Relevant to: Speaking honestly about boundaries; Bottling up frustration
Book information checked or retained on 14 September 2026. Benefits, discussion questions and reading approaches are suggestions. Your knowledge of your child remains part of the decision.
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