Love Letters to the Dead

It may offer a sustained way to discuss how grief can affect identity, relationships and truth-telling. The letters also introduce real artists and other notable figures, potentially prompting further curiosity.

Pay attention to references to suicide, child sexual abuse, abusive relationships, substance use, sexual experiences, slut-shaming, strong language and bereavement.

If Laurel’s writing becomes a way of facing the past, how does the book distinguish private expression from getting support from other people? Which parts of her experience remain unresolved?

Consider reading alongside Laurel rather than rushing through the letters. Pause after difficult material, invite discussion without demanding personal disclosure, and check in about whether the ending feels hopeful or unfinished.