A contemporary story about unreturned love, keeping secrets and Tretch’s effort to be more open about who he is. His bond with Matt and his supportive older brother sit alongside his difficulty talking with his parents.
Tretch conceals his feelings and identity from much of his family, while confiding in his older brother and contemplating a wider life beyond his comfort zone.FavourableFavourable: the book presents this theme approvingly or positively.Favourable: the book presents this theme approvingly or positively.
How the book presents it: The book presents this favourably.
Talk about: What helps Tretch feel able to share more of himself, and what might make that difficult?
Romantic feelings and friendship
Tretch loves Matt, who is straight and unaware of Tretch’s feelings; Tretch helps Matt pursue a girl.Provisional readingProvisional: the reviewed evidence does not establish how the book treats this theme. The evidence gap is listed under Confidence & Basis.Provisional: the reviewed evidence does not establish how the book treats this theme. The evidence gap is listed under Confidence & Basis.
Talk about: How does Tretch balance caring for Matt with looking after his own feelings?
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Why It May Be Worth Reading
It may offer a starting point for talking about honesty, identity and belonging.
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What Deserves Attention
Tretch hides his feelings from his parents and pretends to date a girl who has a crush on him. His mother is wary of Matt’s married fathers; consider whether these family tensions feel comfortable for your reader.
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A Conversation Worth Having
How does Tretch’s decision to keep his feelings private affect his friendships and family relationships? If he chooses to be more open, what kinds of support might matter to him?
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Reading Approach
You could read alongside your teenager and pause where Tretch’s secrecy or his brother’s support prompts a response. Let them choose whether to discuss personal parallels or focus on the characters.
Confidence & Basis
Theme indicators describe how the book presents a topic; they are not a verdict on the whole book or your family's values. Confidence reflects how much book-specific material was checked. Only part of the book information was available, so some details remain unconfirmed.
What remains unconfirmed
Identity and self-expression: The ending and the extent of Tretch’s openness with his family are not established.
Romantic feelings and friendship: Some details of this treatment remain unclear.